What to Wear for a Boudoir Session | Eugene Oregon Boudoir Photographer

Deciding what to wear for your boudoir session can feel overwhelming—and you’re not alone in that. Clothing plays a big role in how confident and comfortable you feel, and my goal is to make this part of the process feel fun, supportive, and stress-free.

I offer consultations with all of my clients where we can talk through colors, styles, and overall vibes that feel aligned for you. This blog is here to help you go a little deeper, spark ideas, and remind you that there is no “right” way to dress for boudoir—only your way.

Every Body Is Unique (and Worth Celebrating)

Every body is different, and every body is full of magic. If you’re able to, I highly recommend visiting a local lingerie boutique where you can try pieces on, feel the fabrics, and get professional fit guidance. Being able to see and feel items in person can make a huge difference.

There are several wonderful lingerie shops in Eugene and Portland, and I’m always happy to share recommendations if you’d like.

If shopping in person isn’t an option for you, that’s completely okay. There are many pieces that photograph beautifully on all body types—and I’ll walk you through those below.

Classic Boudoir Looks (That Always Work)

Classic boudoir pieces are timeless for a reason.

Lace, straps, and thoughtfully chosen lingerie photograph beautifully and flatter a wide range of bodies. When it comes to bottoms, I tend to recommend cheeky or no-show styles rather than ultra-thin g-strings, as they create softer lines and highlight curves more naturally on camera.

For tops, there are endless options:

• Push-up bras

• Simple bralettes

• Bodysuits and teddies (a favorite—they are incredibly flattering)

Three-piece sets, garters, and corsets are also fantastic options. They add texture, structure, and visual interest, and they work beautifully on both curvy and non-curvy bodies alike.

Get Creative With It

Boudoir does not have to be all lace and heels—unless you want it to be.

That denim or leather jacket you love? Bring it.A cozy sweater that makes you feel relaxed and confident? Bring it.Crop tops, jeans, oversized button-downs, cosplay, costumes, fun hats—bring them all.

Boudoir is about you. You’re not trying to make the clothes sexy—the clothes are there to support your energy and confidence.

Accessories Matter More Than You Think

Accessories can add beautiful movement and detail to your images.

• Dangle or hoop earrings

• Longer necklaces

• Sheer, silk, or lace robes

These pieces give your hands something to interact with and add softness, texture, and flow to your photos.

Let’s Talk Nails (Yes, Really)

Your hands are featured a lot during boudoir sessions—touching your hair, your face, and your body—so clean, well-kept nails matter.

If you enjoy getting your nails done, treat yourself. Neutral tones, soft colors, or black photograph beautifully. Bright colors can be fun too, but they tend to draw more attention, so keep that in mind unless that’s your goal.

If manicures aren’t your thing, just make sure your nails (and toes) are trimmed, clean, and fresh-looking.

Shoes Are Optional—but Fun

Heels can be incredibly flattering in photos, especially stilettos or pointed-toe boots. That said, they are never required. Barefoot is always welcome, and comfort comes first. If you have heels you love, toss them in your bag. If not, no stress at all.

Try Everything On Ahead of Time

Before your session, take time to try everything on. Move around in it. Sit. Stretch. See how it feels. Be gentle with yourself during this process—how you see yourself in the mirror is not how I see or photograph you.

Your curves, lines, freckles, dimples, and softness are not flaws. They are part of what makes you human and beautiful.

You are art. You are worthy. You are enough—exactly as you are.

Shine on,

Faliesha Dawne