What Happens During a Boudoir Session? | Eugene Oregon Boudoir Photographer

What Happens During a Boudoir Session? A Look Inside the Experience

Maybe you’ve already decided to invest in yourself with a boudoir session, or maybe you’re simply curious about what actually happens during one. Either way, let me start with this:

A boudoir session is an incredibly fun, supportive, and confidence-boosting experience.

From the moment you arrive, everything is designed to help you feel relaxed, cared for, and celebrated.

Before the Camera Comes Out

Before your session day, we’ll connect to talk through your vision—what you want your images to feel like, what to wear, and where your session will take place. By the time your shoot arrives, nothing feels rushed or uncertain.

On the day of your session, you’re greeted with a calm, welcoming environment. If you booked a larger session, you will get snacks and a drink of your choice. Music of your choice is playing, and the energy is intentionally relaxed.

While you are settling in, I’m quietly preparing—adjusting my camera settings, working with natural light (which I primarily use), and mapping out the flow of your session. I’ll also lay out your outfits and create a loose game plan so everything moves smoothly once we begin.

By the time we start shooting, most clients are already feeling more relaxed, confident, and ready to step into the session.

When the Session Begins

Even the most confident people feel a little nervous at first—and that is completely normal. Boudoir is a vulnerable experience, and I honor that fully. That said, I have yet to meet a client who still feels nervous more than a few minutes into the shoot.

We start with simple, comfortable poses. I guide you gently and intentionally, showing you how beautiful you look along the way. That’s usually the moment things click—the smiles soften, the confidence settles in, and the glow starts to show.

If insecurities come up, I listen—but we don’t dwell there. I understand bodies, lighting, angles, and movement, and I promise to photograph you in ways that feel flattering, honest, and powerful. You don’t need to worry about a thing. All you need to do is show up.

“What Do I Do With My Hands?”

This is one of the most common things clients say—and it always makes me smile.

During your session, I guide everything. From your hands, to your posture, to where you’re looking, to how you move your hair—I’m with you the entire time. I’ll never ask you to “just be sexy.” Instead, I create space, give clear direction, and help bring out a side of you that often surprises even you.

There is usually a lot of laughter. I’m a bit silly, very encouraging, and deeply invested in making sure you feel comfortable and supported. This is a celebration, after all.

Comfort Always Comes First

Breaks are always welcome. Snacks, water, stretching, breathing—whatever you need, we take it. Some poses can be physically demanding, which is why I recommend gentle stretching before and during your session. I’m always checking in and adjusting as needed.

Most importantly: if anything ever feels uncomfortable, you can tell me. Everyone has different boundaries and triggers, and your comfort is non-negotiable. I’ve got you.

After Your Session

Depending on the collection you choose, sessions typically last anywhere from 30 minutes to 2 hours. It’s normal to feel a little tired afterward—but it’s also incredibly common to feel energized, confident, and deeply connected to yourself.

Your images are delivered within about two weeks, and every step of the process—from shooting to editing—is guided by your style, your comfort level, and your vision.

This experience is always about you.

If you are reading this and you have not yet invested in yourself…. What the heck are you waiting for? The party is waiting for you! YOU ARE ENOUGH, YOU ARE WORTH IT! (Click here to book!)

Still needing some reasons to book with me? Read my blog on the top 5 reasons why to book a boudoir session here!